Seizing the Years with Louise Barnard
Some people follow a well-trodden path, mapping their lives according to expectations. Louise Barnard is not one of those people. From breaking into the exclusive world of advertising to embarking on a spontaneous podcasting road trip across the US, sheβs made a habit of trusting her instinctsβand rewriting the rules as she goes.
Now a mother of three and a fierce advocate for movement, energy, and longevity, Louise has built a life that works on her own terms. But it didnβt happen overnight. Her story is one of curiosity, reinvention, and a deep commitment to listening to what truly feels right.
I sat down with Louise to talk about her unconventional journey, the moment she decided to leave the corporate grind behind, and how she approaches energy, not just in fitness but in every aspect of life.
Realising She Needed To Be The Architect Of Her Own Life
Rachael Jennings: Before we dive into my questions, Iβd love to get a bit of background. Who is Louise? Iβve been following you on LinkedIn, and your stories have taken me by surprise. Like the one about your US podcast road tripβI never saw that coming! You seem full of unexpected turns.
Louise Barnard: I guess my path has never really been linear. Iβve always followed my gut, staying open to new experiences and listening to what feels right. If something stops feeling right, I pivot.
I grew up going to a comprehensive schoolβnot a particularly great oneβand later studied at a polytechnic university. While I was there, I decided I wanted to break into advertising. But back then, the industry felt like an exclusive club, dominated by Oxbridge graduates and a bit of a boys' club. I knew Iβd have to carve my own way in, so I immersed myself in reading, learning, and figuring out how to get through the door. Somehow, I landed a role in one of the top ten ad agencies and worked my way up fast.
Advertising was incredible in my twentiesβfast-paced, creative, and full of fascinating people. But by the time I was approaching 30, newly married and thinking about starting a family, I had this realisation: this career, this way of living, wasnβt serving me anymore. I was spending too much time either in the office or in the pub. I wasnβt as healthy as I wanted to be. It just wasnβt working.
So, I did something drastic. I left.
I set off on a road trip across the US, blogging and podcasting along the way. That adventure changed everything. I fell pregnant while I was there and, soon after, started my own businessβnot just to work for myself but to create a life that actually worked for me.
That shift was about more than just work. I realised I function best when my life is fully integratedβwork, movement, family, creativity. I donβt think in straight lines. If I need to go for a run in the middle of the day because thatβs when my best ideas come, I do it. I donβt believe productivity has to mean being glued to a desk.
As I had children, that mindset became even more important. I wanted to be there for their assemblies, and their sports days. I wanted to build a life where I wasnβt forced to choose between career and presence. So I designed a way of working that allowed me to do both.
Balance Isnβt Perfect, Itβs About Knowing What Fuels You
Rachael: That leads me to something else I wanted to ask. Living well looks so different for everyoneβit shifts based on our priorities and goals. How do you define it for yourself now, and has that changed over the years?
Louise: I think itβs always evolving. Becoming a parent was a big shift for me. Thereβs this constant push and pullβyou want to grow a business, to exercise, to be fully present for your children. But thereβs only so much time, and youβre always figuring out how to make it all work.
I donβt think thereβs ever a perfect balance. But for me, itβs about finding harmonyβknowing what I need in order to feel good, to be present in all the areas of my life. Sleep, movement, time to myselfβthose things matter. Iβm a better version of myself when I prioritise them.
Iβve learned that I think more creatively when Iβm moving, especially outdoors. So I donβt sit at my desk forcing ideasβI go for a walk in nature and let them come to me. I also know Iβm a better mum when Iβve exercised. Saturday mornings, my kids will ask, "Where are you going?" and I tell them, "Iβm off to boot camp, Iβll be back in an hourβbut you know Iβll be in a much better mood all day long!" And they get it.
So for me, living well isnβt about rigid schedules or perfect routines. Itβs about understanding what fuels you, what makes you feel good, and giving yourself permission to build your life around that.
Noticing the Small Things Changed Everything
Rachael: I love what youβre saying about giving yourself permissionβnot waiting for someone else to say itβs okay to step away from your desk or take time for yourself. Has your mindset around this changed over time?
Louise: Absolutely. The big shift for me was moving from my 20s to my 30s, which was also when I became a parent and left the advertising world to start my own thing.
Before that, I was always just doingβfull-on work, full-on play, constantly moving. But in my 30s, I started paying attention. Instead of just pushing through, I began noticing how things made me feel and how they affected the people around me.
Take barefoot shoesβIβve worn them exclusively for the last five years, and my kids have never worn anything else. Before, I never questioned footwearβI just assumed sore feet and back pain were normal. But once I switched, I realised how much better I felt. The same happened with breathing. After reading Breath by James Nestor, I started nasal breathing and mouth taping at night. I used to think I just had a permanently blocked nose, but now I rarely get sick.
So, the shift for me has been moving from just doing to being mindfulβlistening to my body and making small changes that have a big impact.
Rachael: Thatβs fascinating. Itβs incredible how something as simple as changing your shoes or how you breathe can make such a difference. And I love that youβve passed that mindset onto your kids. So much of what we believe about health is just accepted as βnormalβ when it doesnβt have to be.
Louise: Exactly. And it comes back to permissionβallowing yourself to do things differently.
Some people donβt like barefoot shoes because of how they look, but I see βnormalβ shoes and think, How do people wear those? The same applies to how I work. I donβt just sit at a desk all day. I move. I sit on the floor, stand, use a chair, go for walks. People are used to seeing me at odd angles on Zoom because my background is floor-level!
We werenβt designed to sit in one position for hours. The more we move, the better we feel, work, and show up for life.
Picturing Your 85-Year-Old Self
Louise: When you were talking, it reminded me of an exercise I did recentlyβone where you visualise your older self and ask, What advice would they give you now? As I wrote it out, I imagined meeting my 85-year-old self in the woods.
The woods are special to me; I love going for walks there. And in this visualisation, my older self thanked me for laying the foundations that allowed her to keep doing what she lovedβwalking in the woods, even at 85. That moment made me realise just how important it is to take care of my body now so I can continue doing the things that bring me joy in the future.
The terrain in the woods is uneven, muddy, and filled with tree roots. You donβt often see 85-, 90-, or 95-year-olds out for daily walks in those conditions. But my attitude is use it or lose it.
So, I walk in the woods every single day. I do the work nowβwearing barefoot shoes, sitting on the floor while I work, strength training, focussing on stretching and mobility once a week, doing HIIT workoutsβbecause I want to be able to move freely for as long as I live. Iβm not going to let a lack of preparation today take that away from me in the future.
Pushing Limits at Hyrox
Rachael: Tell me about your recent Hyrox challenge, how was it?
Louise: It was all very Instagramβlive from Hyrox! And there we were, two women in our 40s, looking around and thinking, What are we doing here? Everyone else seemed younger, fitter, decked out in the latest gear. We didnβt exactly blend in. But once we got started, none of that mattered.
The race itself? Brutal. But in the best way. And the entire time, we kept saying, Next timeβ¦ next timeβ¦ Because, of course, weβre doing it again. Thatβs how it hooks you. It gets under your skin, and suddenly, you want to push harder, move faster, be better. Thatβs why itβs got this cult-like following.
I was there in my barefoot shoes, surrounded by people in these high-tech running shoes with carbon plates. And I did get a few looks, but at this point, I donβt even care. I know what works for me. And honestly, it was such an experience because, like you said, itβs really intense. Itβs eight stations mixed in with a total of 8 km of running, and the stations include things like a sled push, sled pull, rowing, burpees, and farmerβs carries.
So, I think what I loved about it is that itβs this real mix of endurance and strength, and I like both of those elements. I mean, I run, but I also do weight training. So, it felt like this great test of overall fitness. And because I was doing it with my friend, we could split everything between us, which made it feel a little more manageable. But still, it was brutal!
One of the hardest things for me was the sled push. I wasnβt used to pushing that kind of weight over that kind of distance. I donβt have that natural body weight to leverage, so I really had to dig in. But once we got through that, I actually found myself really enjoying it.
Rachael: Thatβs so cool. So, was there a point where you felt like, Okay, this is too much, I canβt do it? Or did you just power through?
Louise: I think the moment where I really had to mentally push myself was probably during the burpee broad jumps. By that point, my legs were just completely fried, and I could feel them screaming at me. But I just kept thinking, Just one more, just one more, and eventually, you get through it.
And the atmosphere was incredible. There was so much energy, it really does help when you feel like you're part of something bigger. And I think that's what made it so fun in the end. Because when I finished, I was exhausted, but I also had this huge rush of accomplishment.
The thing I found most fascinating was how strategic it was. Itβs not just about being fitβitβs about knowing how to use your energy. Every station, every run, was a constant dialogue with myself: Do I go all out here? Hold back a little? Can I push harder? Should I slow this run so I can hit the next station stronger?
And because I was competing with a partner, it wasnβt just about meβit was about us. Reading each otherβs strengths, spotting the moments when she looked tired and stepping up to take more of the load and vice versa. It was this constant, almost instinctive energy exchange, adjusting as we went.
Now that weβve done it once, weβre obsessed with doing it better. We finished in about an hour and 31 minutes, which was pretty much our target. But now? Now, we know the game. And next time, weβre going in smarter, faster, and even more dialled in.
Rachael: Love that. Okay, last questionβwould you do it again?
Louise: Oh, 100%. I mean, I was sore for days afterwards, but Iβd absolutely do it again. Maybe even the individual category next time. Weβll see!
The Art of Energy Management
Rachael: It sounds like the biggest challenge wasnβt just the physical sideβit was managing energy. Iβve done marathons and half-marathons, and while pacing is a factor, youβre still just running the whole time. But Hyrox? Thatβs different. Youβre shifting between high-intensity bursts and strategic pauses. Did that make you think differently about how you manage energy in your daily life?
Louise: Completely. Itβs all about awarenessβlearning to read your own energy levels and knowing when to push when to hold back, and when to recharge. Because energy is exhaustible, but itβs also renewable.
There used to be this mindset of just pushing throughβgrinding on, no matter what. Now, Iβm much more intentional. Iβve learned to respect the peaks and troughs. Some days, I wake up and feel unstoppable. On other days, I know I need to be kind to myself, slow down, and reset.
Thatβs why sleep is non-negotiable for me. I wake up early, but I go to bed early. If I donβt, I feel it instantlyβIβm less mindful, less present, and everything feels harder. Managing energy isnβt just about getting through a race; itβs about getting through life in a way that feels good, sustainable, and strong.
I used to just bumble through the day, losing the plot a bit. When I didn't get enough sleep, everything felt chaotic. But if I got a good nightβs sleep, I'd wake up feeling like, Okay, this is good. It completely changed how I managed my energy.
The other thing that made a massive difference? When I eat. Over the last few years, Iβve been experimentingβjust seeing what works for me. I used to think I had to eat the minute I woke up. Iβd be starving, so Iβd make this huge bowl of porridge with loads of fruit. And at first, Iβd feel brilliant.
Then, by 11 a.m.? Absolutely exhausted. Tired. Grumpy. Craving coffee. Starving again. And I just thought, Well, thatβs me, I guess.
But then I started looking into eating windows and how timing affects energy. I switched things upβnow I donβt eat until between 9 and 10. And instead of porridge, I have eggs, avocado, nutsβsomething with protein and healthy fats. And the difference is huge. No crashes. No mid-morning hunger. I can go all the way through till about 3 p.m., have my main meal then, and thatβs it. I donβt wake up starving. I donβt run out of energy.
That old way of eating? It was all wrong for me. But that doesnβt mean my approach will work for everyone. Itβs just about experimenting, paying attention, and adjusting. And Iβm not rigid with itβweekends are more relaxed, we eat later, sometimes eat rubbish, and thatβs fine. Itβs about having a structure that works most of the time.
It also helps that I set up my own business. I donβt have to shovel breakfast down before racing to an office. I can eat at half nine, ten oβclockβwhatever works. And I think that is the key. Just finding what actually works for you and making it fit into your life.
The Stories We Tell Ourselves
Louise: I was just thinkingβso much of this comes down to the stories we tell ourselves and how we define ourselves. For years, I told myself, Iβm not a runner. Iβd go for a run, and it never felt easy. Iβd look at other peopleβespecially those who run marathonsβand think, How do they do that? A marathon felt impossible.
But hereβs the thingβI do run. I run once or twice a week, and I actually enjoy it. So why was I telling myself I wasnβt a runner? The truth is, I am a runnerβjust not in the way I imagined a runner should be. Iβm not an elite athlete, but I love being out in the woods, moving my body, and if I donβt have time for an hour-long walk, I can cover the same ground in half the time if I run. So, I run.
We do this with so many things. People say I donβt like exercise. But what does that actually mean? Do you dislike all movement? Or do you just not like a certain type? Maybe you love being outside. Maybe you enjoy socialising. If thatβs the case, find an activity that fitsβjoin a boot camp, go for group hikes, or take a dance class. The key is to focus on what you do enjoy, rather than writing something off completely.
Rachael: Exactly. Itβs about identifying what you actually enjoy about an experience. Take drinking, for example. If you ask people why they love going out, a lot of the time, itβs not actually about the alcoholβitβs about the socialising, the random conversations, the connection. If thatβs what you love, you can find it elsewhereβmaybe in a walking group, a coffee meet-up, or a workout class. You donβt have to give up what brings you joy; you just shift where you find it.
Louise: Yes! And with something like running, donβt focus on the act itselfβfocus on what it gives you. Maybe itβs time to listen to your favourite podcast. Maybe itβs a way to explore new places. Maybe itβs time with a friend or a parent. For me, running became my lifeline during COVID. I had a four-week-old baby, a two-year-old, a four-year-old, and I was running a business while my husband worked from home. It was chaos. But every day, Iβd go for a run, and it was my one moment of peace. It wasnβt about fitnessβit was about space.
If something makes you feel better, lean into it. Build habits around what actually serves you, rather than forcing yourself into a version of health that doesnβt feel natural.
Rachael: Yes, and I think thatβs the challengeβrecognising that every decision is a fork in the road. When you know what you needβwhether itβs time alone, connection, or movementβyou can ask yourself, Am I choosing the version that benefits future me? Life is just a series of those little decisions.
So, if someone feels intimidated by changeβwhether it's running, barefoot shoes, or anything elseβwhat would you say?
Louise: Start small. If youβre curious about barefoot shoes, donβt jump straight into running in them. Maybe start with a pair of trainers that look cool but have a barefoot sole. Or try barefoot walking shoes first. When something feels overwhelming, itβs usually because we think we have to do everything at once. But just dip a toe inβsee how it feels. If you like it, add a little more.
Itβs like how I always take the stairs instead of the escalator. When Iβm with people, theyβll say, Oh, you donβt like escalators? And Iβll reply, I donβt mind escalatorsβI just take the stairs. Itβs a tiny shift, but it changes the way I see myself. Iβm someone who takes the stairs.
Rachael: Exactly! Small, incremental changes. And paying attention to whether they actually make you feel better. So many of us try things because we think we shouldβwhether itβs a certain diet, workout, or lifestyle habitβbut if it doesnβt work for you, you donβt have to force it. The key is finding what actually fits.
Staying Open to Possibilities
As our conversation draws to a close, one thing becomes abundantly clearβLouise Barnard approaches life with an open heart, an open mind, and a willingness to embrace whatever comes her way.
"I donβt like to plan too far ahead or lock myself into anything too rigid," she shares. "For me, itβs about asking: How am I feeling right now? If something is working, greatβIβll lean into it. If itβs not, Iβll pivot and try something else."
That openness has led her to unexpected experiences, like competing in Hyroxβsomething she hadn't even heard of until a friend suggested it. "I just thought, Yeah, why not? And now, itβs a part of my life," she says. The same philosophy applies to challenges on the horizonβshe doesnβt always know whatβs next, but she trusts that when the right thing comes along, sheβll recognise it and say yes.
At the heart of it all is a long-term vision: making choices that ensure her future selfβher 85-year-old selfβcan still embrace new experiences. "I donβt ever want to say, I wish I could do that, but I canβt, because my body wonβt let me. The only reason I want to say I canβt is because Iβm choosing to spend my time elsewhereβlike with my kids."
And so, her goal remains simple yet profound: to stay well, to stay strong, and to stay open. Because when you approach life with curiosity and a willingness to say yes, you never know where it might take you.
Thank you so much, Louise, for sharing your story with us!
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Seize the years,
Rachael Jennings | Co-Founder + CBO, Jenerise